Ministering - A Demonstration of Discipleship, Gratitude and Love for God

Sister Jean B. Bingham, General Relief Society President, has said that “our service to others is a demonstration of discipleship and our gratitude and love for God and His Son, Jesus Christ”. I know we all want to be obedient to the commandments.  We all strive to “Love one another” and to “love our neighbor as ourselves”.  But sometimes it’s a little scary to put ourselves out there, to take that extra step and offer our services, to become friends with someone we don’t know and have little in common with.

But whatever our differences, our divine heritage unites us as sisters and daughters of God.  We are united in our love and devotion to God, and our desires to follow His prophet. It really is an exciting time to live, and as I contemplate all of the new information and guidance we have received during and since General Conference, I am awed and humbled by the need to take better care of and more interest in the sisters whom I serve.

We have literally been asked to strengthen one another in the Lord. To go above and beyond what we usually did in visiting the sisters we are assigned to visit, as well as others in our wards and communities.  I know many of you have already been doing this. You have always gone beyond the monthly required visit.  You have taken a personal interest in the sisters you visit and have become a part of their lives. They have moved beyond being an assignment on a piece of paper.

How do we do this now that a monthly in-home visit with a message is no longer required?  The best place I know of to start is with prayer. Pray for your sisters by name.  Pray that you will be open to promptings that will allow you to help them.  Our Father is mindful of all of us.  He knows our hearts, and He knows their needs.  Turn your heart to Him and let Him guide you.

Ask your sisters what works best for them.  A visit, phone call, text, walk in the park, play date with your kids, lunch together, a short conversation at church…all these and more can be part of your Ministering and care. Sister Aburto, General Relief Society 2nd counselor, has said: “It’s not so much what you do, but how you feel and how they feel.  Do whatever it takes so that person knows that you are a true friend and that you will come when they need your help.”

So maybe we need to ask ourselves - What am I are going to do that will be different than I’ve done before?  How can I show more care instead of less?  How will I be able to respond during my quarterly interview with my Relief Society leaders when they ask how my sisters are doing? Will I really know?

I think we’re going to find greater unity in our wards and branches as we implement this new program.  I think we’ll have more needs being met, and more of our less active sisters returning to activity.  I trust that we’ll grow closer as we counsel together and coordinate with our Priesthood brethren. Whole families will be blessed by our care and love.  Isn’t it marvelous to watch our Father’s plans for us unfold?

I’m so grateful for a living Prophet, President Russell M. Nelson, and for his counsel to us to seek revelation. In his words: “In coming days, it will not be possible to survive spiritually without the guiding, directing, comforting, and constant influence of the Holy Ghost."  I pray that you will seek for and follow the guidance you need as you watch over your sisters with love.

- Cindy Erekson
Columbia Stake Relief Society President

All Are Alike Unto God

Over the past few weeks, we have heard announcements about the upcoming commemoration of the 1978 Revelation on the Priesthood.  My own mind has gone back to what I recall about that day.  I was 13 years old when the revelation was announced.  Our family was so excited when we heard the news broadcast.  This was crucial and something we had looked forward to as an event that needed to happened.  To us it was a "sign of the times" - a clear indication that we were growing closer to the Second Coming of Christ on the Earth.  I sat outside in our carport for awhile that afternoon and said my own prayer of gratitude.

I have asked a few family members and friends to share their recollections with us.

Shared by Ann Anderson: I remember being surprised.  Much of my youth had been spent on explaining why all worthy men couldn't have the priesthood.  This was an event that I didn't think would happen in my lifetime.  It was a great day for the whole Church.  President Kimball was the prophet of my youth.  We all loved him. I'm so glad that he was given this revelation.

Shared by Bonnie Peterson: I was so excited that everybody could have the Priesthood and go to the temple that I wrote about it in my journal.  To me that was an amazing moment and I absolutely felt the Spirit and also felt the love of Father for all of His children.

Shared by June Crue: We had a brother in our ward who was a faithful Latter-day Saint and when I heard the news, I and other members in my ward wept for joy.  And when we talked to him, his joy was so great that he couldn't even speak.  We all cried great tears of happiness and thanks to the Lord.  I am overcome right now thinking about it.

Shared by Susanne Rigby: I was only a kid, but remember thinking "It's about time!"

Shared by Cindy Erekson: How well I remember the Priesthood announcement! We lived in SLC at the time and sat glued to our TV set as this wonderful news was shared. I remember the thrill of excitement and the tears pouring down my face.  History was truly being made that day!

Cindy also shared these photos of the news clippings:





The Church is holding a unique celebration honoring the 40th anniversary of President Spencer W. Kimball's revelation on the Priesthood on June 1, 2018 at the Conference Center in Salt Lake City. The event is sponsored by the First Presidency and will include a message from the First Presidency, stories of faith, and musical performances by Gladys Knight, Saints United Voices, Alex Boye, the Mormon Tabernacle Choir, and another special choir that was formed specifically for this event.

It will be live-streamed on June 1st at 9:30 PM EST.  (lds.org, mormon channel, Facebook and Instagram).  The Washington DC Temple Visitor Center will also show a recording on Saturday morning, June 2 at 11:00 AM EST.

From Mormon Newsroom article announcing the evening: While the June celebration will hail the history of black Mormon pioneers and reaffirm the reality that “all are alike unto God” in His global family, the event is intended to be much more than a celebration. It will also be a renewal of our collective commitment to pursue oneness in our relationships with each other and with heaven. 

Additionally, there is a new video called "Be One" that all are encouraged to watch.  Here is the link:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vxS89yZtAmM

-Lorie Pierce

Our Sometimes Simple Efforts

This week we get to travel to Scotland with Lorna Browne as she shares her wonderful experiences with searching her family's history.

I was very excited to learn that our first stop was going to be in Wigtownshire, the area of Scotland that my ancestors had emigrated from when plans were first unveiled for my second trip to Scotland with a bagpipe band.  Because I have a very Scottish first name and I play the pipes, I have always felt it was my responsibility to learn more about my Scottish heritage.  Although we knew a few things, we did not know much about my Scottish lines at that time.

It was my plan to rent a car once we arrived to the area and go off on my own and discover what information I could.  I soon found that my plan would not be an easy one to follow as it did not appear that there was any place in Wigtownshire where I could rent a car.  I was discouraged, but soon saw the Lord’s hand in helping me while I was there.  Out of all of the families that band members were assigned to spend the time we were there with, I was assigned to stay with the McCrone family.  It turned out Elsie McCrone’s hobby was genealogical research!

One of the first things that Elsie asked me after I arrived in her home was whether or not I had any Scottish heritage.  I answered that I did.  When I pronounced my ancestors’ surname, “McGeoch” as “McGeel,” she mentioned that she had not heard that name.  A few days later, she asked me to spell this name.  When I did, she said, “Och, ‘McGee-oak!’”  She then told me she would be happy to help me look for what information we could find in the area about my family.

Elsie took me the next morning to the cemetery next to a church that my mother had connected our family to.  There we not only found the names of family members we were looking for, but we also found the names of others.  She then took me to other cemeteries in town.  As we were traveling, she asked me if I knew anything else about the family.  The only thing I knew was that they had lived on a farm with the name of Red Brae.  When we were near the end of looking through the last cemetery, we came across a grave of a person who was buried near the Stones of Torrydon near the farm Red Brae.  When Elsie read this, she was excited.  She had heard of these stones and she was sure that her husband, an electrician, had maps that we show us where the farm was.  

We returned to their home and spread maps around on the floor and looked for the Stones of Torrydon.  I have to admit that I wondered if the farm would still be around, but it was! We then jumped in her car and headed to the area to see the farm.  I was content to take a photo of the farm’s sign and the exterior of the farm, but Elsie wasn’t.  She encouraged me to get out and she knocked on the door.  When the homeowner answered the door, Elsie told her that I had come from Canada and my ancestors used to live on this farm.  She wondered if I could see it?  To my surprise, the woman who then lived there invited us in and told me that the kitchen area that we were in was the entirety of original home.  It was really neat to be there, and I am very grateful that I had the chance to see the home and to learn so much more about my ancestors!

My experiences in Wigtownshire were the first where I received the Lord’s assistance with my family history efforts, but they have not been my last. I will not write about these here, but, if you are interested, ask me about the way things opened up for my family to secure a Czech genealogist to research our family there at a rare time when the archives were open. You could also ask me how my mother learned how to read Cyrillic, Romanian, and Ukrainian to read records released by the Greek Orthodox Church from an area in modern-day Ukraine to take my father’s lines back to the 1700s as it was the only way we could obtain information about these lines.  You could also ask how Ancestry.com’s release of a new batch of German church records helped my family extend a line that we had not been able to do anything with for many years.  It is such a blessing to live at a time when there are so many tools to help us do our family history! Although we sometimes need to travel to some places to gain information, we no longer need to go to all parts of the world to learn more about our ancestors!  I know that temple and family history work is the Lord’s work and that He magnifies our--sometimes simple--efforts as we seek to do it. Through small and simple things, great things do truly come to pass (Alma 37:6).

- Lorna Browne

A New, Holier Way

The Stake Relief Society presidency has been studying, pondering and discussing Ministering as they prepare to help ward and branch presidencies move forward with this new way.  As I have studied, pondered and discussed with them, I have felt the Spirit testify of this shift to Ministering and of the power it can and will have in the lives of each of us and the future generations.

Many of us, including myself, may have heard President Nelson announce the change in Conference and initially thought 'Oh good I can tell my home teachers they don't need to come.'  or we may have thought that less was being asked of us.  The reality is actually something different - something better that will bring us closer to Christ if we allow it.  President Nelson explained, "Sisters and brothers—old and young—will serve one another in a new, holier way." (https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2018/04/let-us-all-press-on?lang=eng)  I like that phrase new, holier way, because it truly helps convey the intent behind these changes.  We are being given an opportunity to become more like our Savior in a way that hasn't been emphasized quite like this before now.  My husband recently spoke in our Sacrament Meeting and used the comparison of Home & Visiting Teaching being like the Law of Moses and Ministering being a Higher Law.  The Lord knows each of us and knows our capacities.  He knows that we are ready and prepared to accept this invitation to act.

"For many years, home teachers and visiting teachers have responded to assignments to visit the house of each member monthly, deliver a message, and help as needed. Countless hours of devoted and selfless service have been given in this great work.  Building on that devotion, Church leaders now ask members to increase their focus on Christlike caring for others, both spiritually and temporally. To emphasize that caring, the former programs of home teaching and visiting teaching are now a common effort referred to as 'ministering,' overseen by the elders quorum and Relief Society presidencies under the direction of the bishop."  (https://www.lds.org/mycalling/ministering-faq?lang=eng)

For some of us, Ministering won't actually feel very different from their visiting teaching experiences.  There are many who have already been serving as visiting teachers in the true spirit of ministering to one another.  Today being Mother's Day, it seems only fitting I acknowledge the sweet influence my own mother's example of true ministering had on me.  She truly loved the sisters she was assigned to visit teach and was always watchful for ways she could help them bear their burdens.  She mourned with them and rejoiced with them.  She prayed and fasted for them. She invited them into our home and into her life. She shared her love of the Lord and His Gospel with them.  Her service was never a checklist and her sisters never felt they were an obligation.  She cared so deeply for them, that when she was dying of cancer one of her final requests of me was that I go personally to visit each of them to let them know she had passed and to express her love for them.  What a powerful experience those visits were for me.

As I have viewed the videos available at minisering.lds.org one in particular caught my attention.  It is titled "An Invitation to Act".  At the beginning of it Elder Ballard issues an invitation.  He says, "I invite you to study 3rd Nephi by identifying every reference to the word minister in any of its forms and every reference to the phrase one by one.  Once you have thoroughly identified these words and phrases, please consider what The Book of Mormon teaches about ministering.  I also invite you to seek the Lord's help to understand how ministering applies.  All leaders and members of the Church need to be careful not to just minister to those names on a list but to minister to all of Heavenly Father's children. My brothers and sisters I testify that this is the work of the Lord. May He bless you to implement with power the counsel from the First Presidency."  Sisters, I am accepting his invitation this week as part of my daily study from The Book of Mormon.  I know that this simple thing will increase my understanding and help me invite the Spirit to guide my ministering efforts.  Will you join me?

Many of you may still have questions about implementation and how to move forward.  But just as there are questions, there are many materials being published online to help leaders and each of us understand our new roles and responsibilities and how to effect the changes that may be needed to move this work forward.  One page that contains helpful explanations is the Frequently Asked Questions.  If you've wondered about any of these things listed below, you can go to that page and read to gain understanding for yourself.

I would love to hear from our sisters as they begin to experience Ministering.  If you are willing to share your experiences with the sisters of our Stake, please email me at loriepierce.rs@gmail.com, so I can include them in future blog posts.  We love you sisters and look forward to our continued associations and service together as sisters of the Columbia Maryland Stake.

- Lorie Pierce

Ministering Replaces Home Teaching and Visiting Teaching - Frequently Asked Questions

Given A Voice

Sisters we were richly blessed yesterday morning by the Spirit as Sister Turley shared the gift of her voice and her heart and her testimony of the Savior.  I can't do justice to what she shared with us.  I know that each of us who were there were touched personally through her words and her songs (and the sweet voices of her daughters).

Our theme for this year has been Turn on Your Light.  Sister Turley wove that theme into a beautiful tapestry this morning.  She was inspired to focus us on how sharing our light through ministering will uplift and bless us.  As she concluded her remarks, she said that we each have been given a voice to sing with - to minister to ourselves as we draw close to our Savior, to our families as we love and serve, to our communities as we reach out to one another.  She encouraged us to find our voice and share it.

We want to express our gratitude to the sisters who planned and prepared our breakfast yesterday morning.  Our committee was Kelly Smith, Tammy Rosson, Connie Knight and Shalie Beck, but we know that they were supported in their efforts by dozens of our sisters around the Stake.  We are truly grateful for how willing the sisters of the Columbia Stake are to step in and serve.

Thank you also to Tami Koncurat and Carol Williams who generously loaned us their lanterns.

A special thanks to the sisters who provided sign language translation for our hearing impaired sisters.

We also want to acknowledge and express our gratitude for the support of our Priesthood brethren.  Without their help in set up and clean up and all sorts of technical issues, these events would be much more burdensome.

As I watched the pre-event preparations - the during event service - the after event assistance, I know I was seeing the Light of our Stake Relief Society and Priesthood brethren in action.  The willingness and genuine caring demonstrated touched my heart.

-Lorie Pierce

The Time Had Come To Reignite My Family History Search

As an African American convert to the church, I knew that researching my ancestors would be a challenge. The biggest obstacle to tracing my African-American lineage would be slavery, an institution that broke family bonds and made record keeping nearly impossible. I already knew very little about my family beyond my grandparents. That’s why after an initial start to my family history research (and many hours of frustration), I ended up taking a 4 year hiatus. I felt defeated at the time but I held on to hope that the answers I needed would be revealed to me in due time.

After a not so subtle dream and a Sacrament meeting full of talks on family history, I received revelation that the time had come to reignite my family history search. So I dusted off my old FamilySearch.org account and began the work once again. To my surprise, I had so many more opportunities open to me now compared to before. More resources for African American genealogy were available through Ancestry.com and other websites. My grandfather and the eldest member of our family, who previously lived in another state, just moved to Maryland and he was able to give me so much information about his parents and grandparents.  Another family member of mine, who has been a great record keeper, gifted me with numerous documents including obituaries, birth certificates, death certificates, pictures and letters. I never knew before how much information she was sitting on! Newly equipped with only first names of family members who were born into slavery and the name of a small town in South Carolina, I was able to find (through the magic of the Internet) the slave owner’s records with my ancestors’ names and birth years listed! It was like my ancestors had just opened the floodgates and released the jackpot of family history goodness on me!

In an April 2017 talk by Pres. Henry B. Eyring, he says “We do not know what marvels God will inspire people to create to help in His work of gathering His family. But whatever marvelous inventions may come, their use will require the Spirit working in people like you and me. This should not surprise us. After all, these are beloved sons and daughters of God. He will send whatever inspiration is needed to give them the opportunity to return to Him.” (https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2017/04/gathering-the-family-of-god?lang=eng)

I am so grateful that God sent me the inspiration to help complete His work. I am even more grateful that I was in the right position to receive this inspiration. I have gained many blessings from this family history journey besides having many names to take to the Temple for performing ordinances. This has given me the opportunity to draw closer to my family members. Being the only LDS member of my family has been a challenge at times, and working on family history with my aunt and grandfather has allowed me to share the gospel and learn the oral histories of my family. My testimony of the Gospel and my faith has been strengthened by allowing the Spirit to work through me. The Lord has blessed me in my efforts to do family history work. The “Spirit of Elijah” is strong and I can feel it guiding me and revealing the knowledge I need to help my ancestors return to Heavenly Father. It is my hope that others will be able to receive this inspiration in the gathering of Heavenly Father’s family.

Tyese Knight
Eldersburg Ward

"It's a Miracle!"

A few weeks back, I saw a Facebook post from a friend in another state about how her participation in the Church's Self-Reliance Initiative had truly blessed her life.  I asked her if I could share her post with my sisters here in the Columbia Maryland Stake.  She agreed.  As I read her comment, it occurred to me that within our stake many sisters have been participating with the classes and focus groups offered through this initiative.  I would love to share experiences from those of you who have or who are participating.  Your experiences may be just what one of your sisters needs to encourage her to make a change, improve her skills, set a new goal, etc.  Please if you are willing to share - email me at loriepierce.rs@gmail.com.

Original Facebook post from my friend - Inger Orr:

"OK, I think YNAB is gonna save our lives....we actually spoke, with hope, about house projects that have been neglected for many, many years. We are seeing how quickly we should be able to get our debts paid off, then save for these projects. As we head toward our goals, we can actually start planning and pricing, then saving towards fixing up the house! It's a miracle! There are no words....I should say that this is thanks to the self-reliance program we are attending at church. The program has four areas of focus and we're attending the financial self-reliance section, which prompted me to look for a budgeting app, which led me to YNAB (thank you, again, Ken!)."

I also found this while searching the Church website for applicable info:

Adriana González



“When I asked about the bright blue table in the middle of Adriana’s kitchen, I learned that there was a time she had no table at all. Struggling to make ends meet, she took one of the Church’s self-reliance courses and decided that she could bake and sell bread—if only she had a table. She prayed for help and built a table from scrap wood.”
—Cody Bell, photographer

For more photos and story about Adriana, go to lds.org/go/21721.
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Here are links to some good articles:

Let Us Be Self-Reliant and Independent
Self-Reliance Participants' Quotes From Around the World
Catching the Vision of Self-Reliance

For more information on the Self-Reliance Initiative you can contact our Stake Self-Reliance Specialist - Susie Rosenquist at ColumbiaMDStake.SRS@gmail.com.

You can also access the materials using the Gospel Library app under Self-Reliance or visit srs.lds.org.

-Lorie Pierce