Let The Holy Spirit Guide

In preparation to listen to Conference this weekend, I've spent the past several weeks listening the talks from the April 2018 General Conference again.  As I've pondered over the past six months of my life and how the inspiration I received during that last Conference has help guide me these past months, I have felt an anticipation for hearing the messages of this weekend's Conference.  One of the messages that sunk deep into my heart was President Nelson's talk Revelation for the Church, Revelation for our Lives.  This sentence from that talk grabbed my attention - as I'm sure it did for many others - "In coming days, it will not be possible to survive spiritually without the guiding, directing, comforting, and constant influence of the Holy Ghost."

I am grateful to know how to recognize the influence of and impressions from the Holy Ghost in my life.  But how did I come to this point and how would I help others who aren't sure if they know how to recognize that influence?  That is harder for me to answer because it is such a personal feeling - a feeling that is difficult to describe and a feeling that I know is not exactly replicated between people.  We each have the ability to recognize when we are feeling the Holy Ghost speak to our minds and our hearts, but because we are each unique that experience will be similar but not exactly the same for each individual.

I also loved the talk by President Eyring His Spirit to Be with You from the April 2018 Conference.  He helps us see the pattern to follow that will allow us to receive the Holy Ghost and recognize that influence in our lives.  "More precious than a memory of events is the memory of the Holy Ghost touching our hearts and His continuing affirmation of truth. More precious than seeing with our eyes or remembering words spoken and read is recalling the feelings that accompanied the quiet voice of the Spirit. Rarely I have felt it exactly as the travelers on the road to Emmaus did—as a soft but unmistakable burning in the heart. More often it is a feeling of light and quiet assurance.  We have the priceless promise of the Holy Ghost as a companion, and we also have true directions on how to claim that gift. These words are said by the Lord’s authorized servant with his hands on our head: “Receive the Holy Ghost.” At that moment you and I have the assurance He will be sent. But our obligation is to choose to open our hearts to receive the ministration of the Spirit over a lifetime."  He continues on from there to lay out the pattern for us to follow.

I actually wasn't planning to publish a post this weekend, but a feeling today of needing to share - an impression of what to share - kept approaching my mind and so I began to write.  There in itself is an example of the influence of the Spirit.  I could have dismissed the thought, but over my years in trying to invite the Holy Ghost to be my companion, I have found that when I simply follow the impressions - impressions that maybe I don't understand the why of, but that the motivation is good and is accompanied by the gentle persistence of a sometimes urgent but often just insistent feeling - then the action is always accompanied by a feeling of approval.  It's Difficult to put into words.  I have tried to take as a guide the verses in Moroni 7:13 But behold, that which is of God inviteth and enticeth to do good continually; wherefore, every thing which inviteth and enticeth to do good, and to love God, and to serve him, is inspired of God. 24 And behold, there were divers ways that he did manifest things unto the children of men, which were good; and all things which are good cometh of Christ;  And I always recall the words of Sister Camilla E. Kimball “Never suppress a generous thought.” (as quoted by Sister Julie B. Beck, "Relief Society: A Sacred Work" Oct 2009 General Conference)

The two experiences that I felt impressed to share are these:

As I have pondered about Ministering and looked for ways to develop my personal ministry as a disciple of Christ, I have noticed something.  I do get impressions regarding those that I have a specific assignment for, but often I have impressions for others within my sphere of influence.  I have a young friend who has moved away from the area, but with whom I have kept in touch through messaging apps and social media.  On occasion these past few months, I have come across uplifting messages, quotes etc. and have felt a very direct impression to share these with my young friend and I have done so.  I don't know much about this friend's day to day life - what struggles they may be having, but I know the Lord does.  I will likely never know why I have felt it important to send these messages along, but I trust the Lord to know and I trust that as I continue to follow this pattern that this friend will be blessed. I believe that this trust is at the core of Ministering.  We ask the Lord to help us know what He needs us to do and He provides us direction through feelings and thoughts that we receive regarding His children.

I love family history and temple work!  I have felt that my involvement in this work is truly part of my personal ministry.  I have recently been correcting the way I have attached sources from my research on a Scottish website to FamilySearch.  In that process, I have been reviewing families that I worked on a few years ago.  Last week as I worked, a Hint for my 1st Cousin 3x Removed, Mary Ross, came up.  I opened that Hint and dismissed it rather quickly.  But within minutes the insistent thought came to my mind "look at that again".  I did and again my response was "there's just not enough here to make the connection.", so I moved on.  Again within minutes that insistent thought "look at that again" came back.  This time I said "okay if this is her - how would I prove it?"  As I began the process of deductive reasoning and mapping things out, I began to find the records that helped me prove she wasn't the mother listed on the record -- BUT -- she was the grandmother!  I had no information on her daughter who was listed in the record - didn't even know she existed.  In the end of the research process, I had found 6 cousins - NONE of which have had temple ordinances completed for them.  I went to bed that night with gratitude in my heart for the insistence of the Spirit, for my own willingness to pay attention and with a definite sense of relief and gratitude from those 6 cousins beyond the veil.  They knew I had found them and they know I will see their ordinances are completed.

Going back to President Nelson's statement: "In coming days, it will not be possible to survive spiritually without the guiding, directing, comforting, and constant influence of the Holy Ghost."   We live at an amazing time and yet a time when fear, anxiety, doubt and confusion can sweep us along in a fast and unfriendly flood.  I think about my children, my grandchildren, all my family and friends and you my sisters in the Stake and I want for them, for you to know that: I know that what President Nelson says is true.  I know because in my own hardest days, it has been and always will be the tether to the Holy Ghost that brings me peace, calms my fears, guides me to answers and gives me hope.  I offer my testimony that as we seek to do those things which invite the Holy Ghost to be our companion, we will gain confidence in recognizing His influence, in following the impressions we receive and we will be able to understand for ourselves how He speaks to us individually.  I chose the picture for this post because it reminds me in a personal way that when we stop to look, we can see the tender mercies of the Lord in the details of our lives and it is through the Holy Ghost that we recognize the Lord's tender mercies and His love.

- Lorie Pierce (Stake RS Secretary)

Written Friday, 5 October 2018 - Published Sunday, 7 October 2018

Our Sometimes Simple Efforts

This week we get to travel to Scotland with Lorna Browne as she shares her wonderful experiences with searching her family's history.

I was very excited to learn that our first stop was going to be in Wigtownshire, the area of Scotland that my ancestors had emigrated from when plans were first unveiled for my second trip to Scotland with a bagpipe band.  Because I have a very Scottish first name and I play the pipes, I have always felt it was my responsibility to learn more about my Scottish heritage.  Although we knew a few things, we did not know much about my Scottish lines at that time.

It was my plan to rent a car once we arrived to the area and go off on my own and discover what information I could.  I soon found that my plan would not be an easy one to follow as it did not appear that there was any place in Wigtownshire where I could rent a car.  I was discouraged, but soon saw the Lord’s hand in helping me while I was there.  Out of all of the families that band members were assigned to spend the time we were there with, I was assigned to stay with the McCrone family.  It turned out Elsie McCrone’s hobby was genealogical research!

One of the first things that Elsie asked me after I arrived in her home was whether or not I had any Scottish heritage.  I answered that I did.  When I pronounced my ancestors’ surname, “McGeoch” as “McGeel,” she mentioned that she had not heard that name.  A few days later, she asked me to spell this name.  When I did, she said, “Och, ‘McGee-oak!’”  She then told me she would be happy to help me look for what information we could find in the area about my family.

Elsie took me the next morning to the cemetery next to a church that my mother had connected our family to.  There we not only found the names of family members we were looking for, but we also found the names of others.  She then took me to other cemeteries in town.  As we were traveling, she asked me if I knew anything else about the family.  The only thing I knew was that they had lived on a farm with the name of Red Brae.  When we were near the end of looking through the last cemetery, we came across a grave of a person who was buried near the Stones of Torrydon near the farm Red Brae.  When Elsie read this, she was excited.  She had heard of these stones and she was sure that her husband, an electrician, had maps that we show us where the farm was.  

We returned to their home and spread maps around on the floor and looked for the Stones of Torrydon.  I have to admit that I wondered if the farm would still be around, but it was! We then jumped in her car and headed to the area to see the farm.  I was content to take a photo of the farm’s sign and the exterior of the farm, but Elsie wasn’t.  She encouraged me to get out and she knocked on the door.  When the homeowner answered the door, Elsie told her that I had come from Canada and my ancestors used to live on this farm.  She wondered if I could see it?  To my surprise, the woman who then lived there invited us in and told me that the kitchen area that we were in was the entirety of original home.  It was really neat to be there, and I am very grateful that I had the chance to see the home and to learn so much more about my ancestors!

My experiences in Wigtownshire were the first where I received the Lord’s assistance with my family history efforts, but they have not been my last. I will not write about these here, but, if you are interested, ask me about the way things opened up for my family to secure a Czech genealogist to research our family there at a rare time when the archives were open. You could also ask me how my mother learned how to read Cyrillic, Romanian, and Ukrainian to read records released by the Greek Orthodox Church from an area in modern-day Ukraine to take my father’s lines back to the 1700s as it was the only way we could obtain information about these lines.  You could also ask how Ancestry.com’s release of a new batch of German church records helped my family extend a line that we had not been able to do anything with for many years.  It is such a blessing to live at a time when there are so many tools to help us do our family history! Although we sometimes need to travel to some places to gain information, we no longer need to go to all parts of the world to learn more about our ancestors!  I know that temple and family history work is the Lord’s work and that He magnifies our--sometimes simple--efforts as we seek to do it. Through small and simple things, great things do truly come to pass (Alma 37:6).

- Lorna Browne

The Time Had Come To Reignite My Family History Search

As an African American convert to the church, I knew that researching my ancestors would be a challenge. The biggest obstacle to tracing my African-American lineage would be slavery, an institution that broke family bonds and made record keeping nearly impossible. I already knew very little about my family beyond my grandparents. That’s why after an initial start to my family history research (and many hours of frustration), I ended up taking a 4 year hiatus. I felt defeated at the time but I held on to hope that the answers I needed would be revealed to me in due time.

After a not so subtle dream and a Sacrament meeting full of talks on family history, I received revelation that the time had come to reignite my family history search. So I dusted off my old FamilySearch.org account and began the work once again. To my surprise, I had so many more opportunities open to me now compared to before. More resources for African American genealogy were available through Ancestry.com and other websites. My grandfather and the eldest member of our family, who previously lived in another state, just moved to Maryland and he was able to give me so much information about his parents and grandparents.  Another family member of mine, who has been a great record keeper, gifted me with numerous documents including obituaries, birth certificates, death certificates, pictures and letters. I never knew before how much information she was sitting on! Newly equipped with only first names of family members who were born into slavery and the name of a small town in South Carolina, I was able to find (through the magic of the Internet) the slave owner’s records with my ancestors’ names and birth years listed! It was like my ancestors had just opened the floodgates and released the jackpot of family history goodness on me!

In an April 2017 talk by Pres. Henry B. Eyring, he says “We do not know what marvels God will inspire people to create to help in His work of gathering His family. But whatever marvelous inventions may come, their use will require the Spirit working in people like you and me. This should not surprise us. After all, these are beloved sons and daughters of God. He will send whatever inspiration is needed to give them the opportunity to return to Him.” (https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2017/04/gathering-the-family-of-god?lang=eng)

I am so grateful that God sent me the inspiration to help complete His work. I am even more grateful that I was in the right position to receive this inspiration. I have gained many blessings from this family history journey besides having many names to take to the Temple for performing ordinances. This has given me the opportunity to draw closer to my family members. Being the only LDS member of my family has been a challenge at times, and working on family history with my aunt and grandfather has allowed me to share the gospel and learn the oral histories of my family. My testimony of the Gospel and my faith has been strengthened by allowing the Spirit to work through me. The Lord has blessed me in my efforts to do family history work. The “Spirit of Elijah” is strong and I can feel it guiding me and revealing the knowledge I need to help my ancestors return to Heavenly Father. It is my hope that others will be able to receive this inspiration in the gathering of Heavenly Father’s family.

Tyese Knight
Eldersburg Ward

FamilySearch Help Center

Did you know that when you call FamilySearch Support, the missionary who answers your call has a database they search to find a consistent answer to your question.  But what is more important to know is that you can also search this database of answers.  It is located in the Help Center on familysearch.org.  It's an amazing resource for solving all kinds of issues and answering all kinds of questions related to using FamilySearch, doing your family history and temple work, getting research assistance, helping others, etc. 

Log into FamilySearch (www.familysearch.org) using your LDS account username and password. It is a good idea to login before using the Help Center to ensure that all features are available to you.

On any page in the website in the upper right corner of the screen you will see the Help link.  Click on it and a drop down menu will appear.

You can click on any of these items to learn what is available, but for this post I am focusing on the Help Center itself.





When you click on Help Center you will see a page like this one.

























Simply type your question or topic into the search box and click Search.  Or you can click on one of the topics listed and then type the query into the search box on that page.  Either way will get you to what you want to know.  The first part of your Search Results will be any Help Center articles that can provide answers and useful information.
























You can learn more about the Help feature with this Help Center article:
https://www.familysearch.org/ask/salesforce/viewArticle?urlname=Using-the-Help-Center-in-FamilySearch-and-Family-Tree-1381815109006&lang=en

There are so many things available on FamilySearch.  Learning to use this tool can improve your family history work experience.

- Lorie Pierce

It Was Not By Chance

I have loved doing family history research ever since I was old enough to copy family names from my mother’s genealogy onto my own family group records as a young child.   Family history work has brought the Spirit powerfully into my life and has blessed me with immeasurable peace and joy throughout my life.  Some of my greatest spiritual experiences have come while engaged in family history research and temple work.   I’d like to share with you one of my treasured family history experiences which is both a family history story and a visiting teaching story wrapped together in one.

Many years ago, while living in Utah, I was handed a slip of paper with my new visiting teaching assignment.  One of the names read, “Esther H.”  “Oh how nice,” I thought.  I had been wanting to get to know Esther better.  She was a lovely woman in her 80’s, articulate, wise, and a person of great faith and testimony.  I was a mother of four young children at the time and felt that there was much I could learn from her.  But I had no idea of the blessings that were in store for both of us through this visiting teaching assignment.

I began visiting Esther in her home.  Over the course of our visits I learned many things about her – about her family who had settled that area of Utah, about her husband who had died years before from a heart attack and about her sadness over her only son who had been inactive for years.  She grieved that she had no active posterity.   I learned of her missionary experiences to Bulgaria and her humanitarian work in South America.  She had so many wonderful stories and life experiences to share.  Though we were probably over 40 years apart in age, we became very dear friends.  She showed great interest in my family and the things going on in my life.  I always came away from those visiting teaching visits feeling very uplifted.  My own family was going through some financial hardships at the time, including a job loss, and I was strengthened through those years by her testimony and example of consistent and steady devotion to the gospel.  She had weathered many of her own storms in life.

I looked for ways that I could serve Esther.  She had helped me so much, even sharing the fruit from the fruit trees on her property, which was a great blessing to us.   One day our conversation turned to family history research.  She asked if I knew how to use the computer program to enter and clear family names for ordinance work.  “Yes,” I told her.  “I use it all the time.”  She then explained to me that her husband had been a convert to the church.  There were no other members of the church in his family.  Her husband had been diligent in collecting as much information as he could over the years while on business trips around the world.  He had gotten the temple work done for many of his close ancestors, but not all of them.  He had an aunt, not a member of the Church, with whom he had corresponded who was an avid genealogist and had meticulously collected genealogy on their family.  She had compiled two huge volumes full of genealogical information and histories which she sent to him.  Esther told me that she had been feeling very strong promptings that she needed to get those names to the temple.  She was at a loss, though, because she did not really know how to use a computer.  She had just bought a brand new one, but didn’t know how to use it yet.  She asked if I could teach her how to use the program so that she could type the names in and get the temple work done for her husband’s ancestors.  She was feeling a great sense of urgency about it.

I was joyful.  This was something I definitely could help her with.  Over the next few months I went over to her house regularly to teach her how to use the genealogy program.  The progress was very slow, though.  Her hands and fingers were arthritic and just didn’t work like they used to.  She had a lot of difficulty just trying to master using the computer, let alone the internet and the genealogy program.  Being a very independent person, she was frustrated with herself and her lack of progress.   Adding to her anxiety was that feeling of great urgency to get the work done.  Finally, at the end of one of our teaching sessions, a thought occurred to me and I asked her, “Would you like me to just type this information in for you?  I wouldn’t mind doing it.”  She looked at me with so much relief and said, “Would you? Really?”  She couldn’t believe that I would do this for her.  I told her, “Of course.  I would love to be able to help you.”  She was overjoyed.

Esther then gave me an apple box full of her husband’s genealogy including the 2 hardbound books put together by his aunt – all of his precious family records.  I brought the box home.  I carefully went through every pedigree chart, family group record and the two books and got all of the information entered into the computer.  The project took me two years to complete.  As I went along, I processed batches of names to clear them for temple work.  As I got cards printed for temple work, I brought them over to Esther.  She was so happy and spent every week after that in the temple.  She often brought friends along with her, to help get the temple work done for her husband’s family.  That was something that she could do, and she did it enthusiastically.  It was such a beautiful experience.  We were working together to accomplish this great work – one entering the information and the other doing the temple work. 

As I worked on the genealogy, I learned about her husband’s family – the good people they were, their faith and homesteading experiences in a little town in central Kansas.  I began to feel a closeness with this family, even though they were not my own.  As I worked on the project over those two years, very real blessings, both temporal and spiritual began flowing to our family – a job for my husband after two years of unemployment, the ability to buy a home after years of renting, as well as other spiritual blessings.  We saw the hand of the Lord plainly in our lives.  I felt so uplifted and a divine sense of calling in doing this work.

  

The project finally came to a close when the last ordinance was completed and I brought all the records back to Esther at the end of those two years.  I handed her a disk with all of the genealogy on it and all of the completed ordinance cards – well over 100 cards.  She had tears in her eyes.  The work was finally done.  She was now at peace.

It was not long after the project was completed that new opportunities awaited our family including a new job for my husband and an out of state move to -- Kansas.  What a great surprise to move to the very state where these people came from that we had done the work for!  My heart was filled with joy as we drove through central Kansas and I got to see the place where this family lived out their lives – these people now sealed and ready to move on in their eternal progress in the heavens.

Just a few years later, Esther’s health declined and she passed away.  How grateful I was that the family history and temple work for her husband’s recorded family were all completed.  I knew she would be meeting her husband with great joy.  

In a Priesthood blessing given to me later, it was made known to me that I had been fore-ordained to help with this family history work for this family.  It was not by chance that I was given this sister as my visiting teaching assignment or by chance that we ended up renting a home in that ward.  The hand of the Lord was in it.  I have a deep testimony of the blessings of family history work and of visiting teaching assignments.  I know that the Lord will lead us as we look for ways to serve the sisters in our care and that he stands ready to bless us as we engage ourselves in His marvelous work of salvation.

-Debbie Wood

Now she truly is my sister!

For years I have been on the fringes of Family History.  I'm a dabbler.  I take a class or hear an inspiring talk and get excited now and then, but I've never felt that drive that some people feel.  You know 

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those people

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...the ones who have spent hours, days

​, months and years digging through files, scouring old records, recording histories and traveling to check out cemeteries in far off locations. 

Sure, I faithfully go to the Temple and act as proxy for people who's existence has been discovered and ordinances readied by "those people".  I serve each week as an ordinance worker, and help countless people receive the saving ordinances of the Gospel and I must admit, I've envied the looks of joy and satisfaction on the faces of others as they've done the work for their very own ancestors.

Well, recently I have been doing the work for some of my ancestors.  Cousins 6 times removed, wives of 8th granduncles, etc.  I don't know these people.  They are not even in my direct line, but they are family none the less, and some share family names of my direct line. 

A few months ago I started using an app called Take A Name.  This app quickly searches through thousands of records in Family Search, identifies people you are related to and shows you what ordinances need to be done.  It also shows sources so you can verify if enough information is available to correctly identify this person and link them to others.  The first time I clicked on, I found 24 ancestors with 56 ordinances ready to be done.  The next time I found another 25.  It's easy to reserve names that you'd like to work on, so that when next you go to Family Search, the names are there and ready to be printed.

Is this a lazy way to do genealogy? Some would say yes.  Others might realize how wonderfully easy modern technology has made this, and would gratefully thank all "those people" who have researched, indexed and paved the way for this great work.

So, now that I'm doing the work for my own family, do I ALWAYS have a spiritual experience and the confirmation that my work has been accepted? No...not always...but let me just share one sweet experience that happened in Initiatory.  I brought 5 names with me.  5 ancestors of my own.  The very first one was my Grandmother's cousin.  As I said her name, tears began to pour down my face.  I honestly don't think they were my tears.  I was acting in her behalf, and I truly feel that her tears were streaming down my face.  The ordinance worker began to weep, and by the time we'd made it through, all 3 workers were crying.  Even the initiatory director walked down and checked on us saying she could feel the Spirit so strongly that she knew something wonderful was happening.  I will forever be grateful for this experience.  I don't expect it every time, and maybe it'll never happen quite like that again...but I do know that I look forward to meeting this sister someday.  Now she truly is my sister! 

- Cindy Erekson

Message from our Temple President

As we look ahead to the lengthy closure of the Washington DC Temple, we need to be doing what we can to prepare for that interval of change. Recently, while dropping off family file names at the temple, I picked up the following letter from our temple president. I felt it was important to publish here, so that the information could be further distributed. If you click on either "document" it will open in a larger view for easier reading.

-Lorie Pierce

Find your ancestors in September

Dear Members of the Columbia Maryland Stake,

The Washington DC Temple is closed now and will re-open on Tue, Oct 3 (The Philadelphia Temple will close 9/18 to 10/2).  The DC Temple will be open just five more months before closing for multiple years in early March 2018.

Temple and family history work is an important responsibility of our dispensation.  We have been encouraged by the Apostles to FIND names of ancestors, TAKE the names to the temple, and TEACH others to do the same.  President Nelson has also asked members to make a sacrifice of time this year (2017) to work on family history work.  With our temple closed this month, this is a perfect time to find an ancestor and print the card to take to the temple.  If you have recently done this, please help teach someone else how to do it.  You do not need to hold a temple recommend in order to participate in family history work.

Getting started in family history work can seem challenging, but there is help available. Please reach out to a ward/branch Temple and Family History consultants, visiting teachers, home teachers, or other members.  We will also open the Family History Center on Sunday 9/17 and Sunday 9/24 from 4:30 to 6:30 p.m., so please stop by to get started.

I realize that everyone is very busy, but the Lord has blessed us with the Sabbath to do His work.  In addition, we could use ward/branch temple nights, date nights, youth events, etc. to seek out our ancestors and prepare their names to take to the temple.

The Lord has prepared the way for this work.  Included below are links to helpful resources to help learn the doctrine, get started, find ancestors in a full family tree, and teach others.  May the Lord bless you as you seek your ancestors and provide ordinances for them.  Your ancestors are waiting.

Kind Regards,

James Mitchell

President Columbia Maryland Stake

RESOURCES: UNDERSTAND THE DOCTRINE

D&C 128:22-24

https://www.lds.org/scriptures/dc-testament/dc/128.15,22-24

Promised Blessings of Family History (video)

https://www.lds.org/topics/family-history/fdd-cook/blessings-video

Families and Temples pamphlet (pdf)

https://www.lds.org/bc/content/ldsorg/manual/missionary/PD10054235_000-Families-and-Temples.pdf

President Russell M. and Sister Wendy Nelson, "A Sacrifice of Time" (video):

https://www.lds.org/topics/family-history/familydiscoveryday/nelson/a-sacrifice-of-time

President Henry B. Eyring, "Gathering the Family of God" (Apr 2017)

https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2017/04/gathering-the-family-of-god

President Russell M. Nelson, "Generations Linked in Love" (Apr 2010)

https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2010/04/generations-linked-in-love

Elder David A. Bednar, "The Hearts of the Children Shall Turn" (Oct 2011)

https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2011/10/the-hearts-of-the-children-shall-turn

Elder Quentin L. Cook, "Roots and Branches" (Apr 2014)

https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/04/roots-and-branches

Elder Richard G. Scott, "The Joy of Redeeming the Dead" (Oct 2012)

https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2012/10/the-joy-of-redeeming-the-dead

RESOURCES: NEW TO FAMILY SEARCH

Getting Started with FamilySearch.org including contact info for temple and family history consultants:

https://www.familysearch.org/ask/gettingStarted

MyFamily Online Booklet:

https://www.familysearch.org/myfamily

Find Your Family Names, First-Time Guide (pdf):

https://www.lds.org/bc/content/ldsorg/topics/family-history/core-assets/PD60001004_FTT_Beginner_Card.pdf

RESOURCES: FULL FAMILY TREE

Full Family Tree, Using Descendancy Ressearch (video):

https://www.lds.org/media-library/video/2015-07-02-full-tree-strategy-using-descendancy-research

Discover Relatives on a Full Tree (pdf):

https://www.lds.org/bc/content/ldsorg/topics/family-history/core-assets/PD10053917_000_Intermediate_Card.pdf

RESOURCES: TEACH OTHERS

Principles of Helping Others:

https://www.lds.org/topics/family-history/my-calling/helping-others

FamilySearch Consultant Planner:

https://familysearch.org/ask/planner

The Tortoise NOT the Hare

I recently felt impressed to ask Sister Debra Burt to share her thoughts on family history work with us.  I love what she shared!

"I feel like the tortoise and definitely NOT like the hare in doing family history.  The slow work, bit by bit, is how I've been able to participate in family history.  I was feeling worried recently that I really haven't done anything of significance in the years I've been plodding along.  Then, I rooted through my research book and pulled together all the temple ordinance cards that I've been able to complete.  My cards actually made a small pile.  It made me smile to think I had played a role in bringing ordinances to all those family members.  It gave me a boost to keep plugging along.  I think eventually I will be able to pick up my pace and do more.  It's a joyful work."   - Debra Burt

We do sometimes wonder if we are making any progress as we wind our way through our family tree.  Research can be tedious and take time. Sometimes we can't see the forest for the trees.  We keep seeing branches and roots and leaves - all the bits and pieces.  But when we step back and look from a high perspective, we can see the whole landscape.  We can see the individuals and families that our work has brought the blessings of the Gospel and saving ordinances to.  We can see our family woven together and extending in all directions as a forest covering the landscape of our lives.  So while you may feel your work is moving slowly - remember that the speed is not what matters.  Just as with the tortoise - keep trying, keep moving and you will find your progress bears fruit.

- Lorie Pierce

You have a possible ancestor....

Have you received an email from FamilySearch letting you know you have ancestors who have temple work ready to be done?  Or have you discovered one of the several family history apps that help you locate ancestors who's temple work needs to be done?

FamilySearch and the other websites and apps are wonderful tools that facilitate our efforts to take our ancestors names to the temple for ordinance work.  However, with each email, alert, notification, etc there is a caution that needs to be noted.  These are possibilities.  We still have a responsibility to verify the information provided to ensure that our ancestors are accurately listed and linked and their ordinances are done correctly.  Often people are very excited with these notifications only to find that there are duplicates of their ancestors in FamilyTree and once merged the temple ordinance work is found to already be complete.

Part of our responsibility to to clean up these records - to find those duplicates - to correct the information associated with them.  Part of our responsibility is to preserve the records associated with these ancestors - their stories, their photos and their documentation as found through verifying hints and other information on FamilySearch and other research sites.  We are not processing numbers through a system - we are linking our families together through data, through memories and recorded experiences and ultimately through ordinances.  This process of verification, research and preservation helps us come to know them - it helps to bind them in our hearts as well as through the ordinances.

“Jesus Christ gave His life as a vicarious atonement. He resolved the ultimate question raised by Job. He overcame death for all mankind, which we could not do for ourselves. We can, however, perform vicarious ordinances and truly become saviors on Mount Zion for our own families in order that we, with them, might be exalted as well as saved.”—Elder Quentin L. Cook, “Roots and Branches.”

Should we be disappointed when a notification or hint doesn't result in a name to take to the temple?  NO - we should be grateful for the opportunity to come to know that person AND we should recognize where that hint might lead us to.  My family line was said to be "all done".  But I have found that the sometimes tedious efforts of verification has yielded more fruit than I imagined possible.  I have found missing ancestors - ancestors that have been waiting patiently for one of their family to take the time to look.  What a joy it is to walk into the temple with those cards in hand and know that the time spent in the looking was time well spent - knowing that those cards with names printed on them represent real people - real people that are my family.

Don't get discouraged in this work.  If you need help to get started or to figure an new way through in finding your ancestors, your family that may be missing - reach out to your ward/branch Temple and Family History Consultants.  If you don't know who that is - ask your Relief Society leadership.  I encourage you to Start - just Start!

I have not only a great love for temple and family history work, but a testimony of it as well.  I have felt the promises of Elijah at work in my life and seen it in the lives of my children.  I have seen the promises of Elder Bednar regarding our youth's participation in the work fulfilled in the experiences of my daughter, Jessica.  I have seen my husband, who never had any interest in the tedium of family history research, allow the Spirit to work in his heart and he has grabbed hold of this work and found his own way to success and satisfaction.  Why does it all matter?  Because families can be eternal through the sealing power of the Priesthood ordinances - the ordinances need to be performed - every member of the family needs to have the opportunity for those ordinances.  Because there is power and peace that comes into our lives as we engage ourselves and our families in the work of salvation.

-Lorie Pierce

Fewer Calories and More Eternal Blessings!

Turn Our Hearts Series - a Guest Post from Lisa Larson

I LOVE family history! For me, it’s as addicting as chocolate – but with fewer calories and more eternal blessings!

I think my great interest in family history began when I visited my grandmother about 16 years ago and she brought out this huge box of old pictures and began sharing stories about the people in those pictures. Then she shared a family Bible and there were names and dates in there that went back for more than 200 years. Those pictures and those names were part of who I am! They were real people with real stories and I wanted to find out everything I could about them. It’s been a great adventure with many amazing stories along the way. My grandmother passed away not too long after that visit and how I wish I could share all that I have learned with her and ask her more questions. I wish I had taken more opportunities to ask questions from her and from others who have since left this earth.

I have truly felt over the years a turning of my heart towards my fathers. Even as I sit here and should be writing this article for the blog, I opened up my Family Tree on FamilySearch and started looking around at my ancestors to decide what story I might share. I stumbled upon a great-great-great-great-great grandfather and thought I’d look at the record hints that were listed. I was led to Find A Grave and there was a picture of him on it! And it’s a picture I have never seen. He was born in 1794 and just looking at his picture makes me want to learn as much as I can about him. Two and a half hours later and I’m back to writing this post again. See - addicting!!!

I don’t have any amazing stories to share. But I have had some cool experiences and have learned much about how to do the research. Earlier this month I even discovered a missing child. My grandmother’s family is from Canada and I was able to find birth records on FamilySearch. I could have stopped by just seeing that there were records and attaching them to the individuals in my tree, but I chose to look closer at each record. I noticed at the top of the record that it was listed which number child it was for my great-great grandmother. The last child was listed as child #12. I looked at my tree - I only had 11 children. There’s a missing child. I tried to find the child in the birth records, but had no luck. I went to Find a Grave and found the cemetery where some of the family was buried and discovered a child buried there with the right last name. I was able to take his name and I did eventually discover his birth record and his death record with the names of my great great grandparents listed as his parents. Here was my missing child. He died when he was only 1 year old. My heart broke for his mother. To lose a child so young must have been difficult. But he is no longer missing from my family tree and my husband and I will go to the temple and have him sealed to his family soon.

I am a true Maryland native. I was born and raised here – but so were so many of my ancestors. I find ancestors that date back to the 1700s here in Maryland – and some were right here in Howard County. Sometimes I wonder why the Lord has kept me here – but maybe it’s because I have work still to do right here for my family. And I feel so blessed to be able to walk around the places that they once lived and to be able to show my children so that their hearts can also turn to their fathers. As I have searched for my ancestors I have learned about their lives, who they were, where they lived, what they did for a living, and even what they looked like. As I have learned about them, they have become real people to me and I have grown to love them and appreciate them. President Monson has said, “We discover something about ourselves when we learn about our ancestors.”

Technology has advanced so much and the records provided from the Indexing program have really helped to move the work of family history along. My grandfather (my dad’s dad) was born in Italy in 1909 and then came to the US with his parents when he was a year old. He passed away 25 years ago and I never really had a chance to get to know him. My father’s mother passed away when my dad was only 2 years old, so I also never knew her. And my father passed away 20 years ago, so he is no longer available here to help answer my questions. I feel such a desire to learn as much as I can about my grandparents. With the release of so many records to FamilySearch, I have been able to piece together so much about their lives and the lives of their families. For so many years we were at a brick wall on the Italian line, but just in the last few years, my brother and I were able to find all kinds of records from Italy and have now been able to take my father’s line back to Italy to the 1700s.

Last fall, we took a trip to Connecticut for the Hartford Temple open house. My dad’s side of the family is from that area, so we were able to visit several cemeteries around the area, the Catholic church where many weddings and funerals took place, and we ended our adventure with a trip to Ellis Island, where my grandfather and his parents arrived over 100 years ago. It was a great experience for my kids and for me.  

I know that as we turn our hearts toward our fathers, the Lord will bless us in our efforts to seek and find and discover our ancestors and their stories and that we will be able to keep our promises to them and provide them with the saving ordinances they have been waiting to receive.

This is a picture from my trip to Connecticut and Massachusetts last fall.

Stake Conference Notes

Sisters we enjoyed a wonderful Stake Conference this past weekend.  Here are my notes from the Sunday session.  I hope they will be helpful to you in recalling the things you heard and the impressions you had.

Brother Ramirez
He spoke of the blessings we receive from the temple.  Specifically he talked about his personal blessings from participating as a youth in baptisms for the dead.  He bore a strong and firm testimony of the power that comes from standing in holy places and the courage to stand up for what is right.

Sister Bartles
She spoke of what she has done to increase her testimony of the Savior and His Gospel.  She said that every time we talk to others about our beliefs and our values we are sharing testimony.  We strengthen our testimony in sharing because the Spirit bears witness of the truth.

Sister Valentin
She spoke of ways she has built her faith in her Savior, Jesus Christ.  She began by reminding us that faith is a principle of action and that developing faith in Jesus Christ requires practice and work.  She then shared three ways that she has been able to build her faith in Jesus Christ.

1.  By reading and studying the word of God in the scriptures - reading the teachings of the Savior and His promises to us.  The scriptures teach truth and open the door to revelation.

2.  Recognizing the importance of prophets - she read from 3 Nephi 5 about the changes the people experienced as they began to listen to the prophets and to remember the Lord.  She quoted from President Thomas S. Monson's most recent General Conference talk in April 2017 on the importance of reading the Book of Mormon.  She noted that his promise to us was specific: "I implore each of us to prayerfully study and ponder the Book of Mormon each day. As we do so, we will be in a position to hear the voice of the Spirit, to resist temptation, to overcome doubt and fear, and to receive heaven’s help in our lives."

3.  Patriarchal blessings provide personal instruction.  She provided a personal witness and tender story of feeling the comfort and love from her Heavenly Father and her Savior, Jesus Christ as she read the words of her patriarchal blessing at a time of distress and need.

Brother Johnson
He began by sharing his personal witness that our stake president, President Mitchell, was called of God. (For those who may be new to the Columbia Stake - this witness was especially tender because Brother Johnson was our stake president for those many years prior to President Mitchell being called.  How blessed we have been and continue to be through the humble service of these good men.)

Brother Johnson currently serves as a sealer in the Washington DC Temple and he spoke to us about the sealing power.  He made special note that the last two verses in the Old Testament (Malachi 4:5-6) are the only two verses of scripture repeated in each of the standard works of scriptures.

Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord:

And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers, lest I come and smite the earth with a curse.

He pointed out that when Moroni appeared to Joseph Smith and quoted these verses, there was the additional phrase "if it were not so" in verse 6.  Brother Johnson bore witness that Elijah the prophet did come and restore the sealing power which enables us to receive the sealing ordinances that bind families together forever.  He ended with his witness, his instruction and his invitation - Elijah came and did his part, now we must do out part.  We must become sealed on both sides of the generations.  He encouraged us with urgency to have the temple ordinances part of our life and the lives of our families.

Sister Folger

She began with the parable of the ten virgins and pointed out that in the Joseph Smith translation of Matthew 25 it reads, "Very I say unto you, ye know me not." rather than "I know you not."

She asked the question, "How do we come to know the Lord?"  She answered with these points:

- treat others as He did

- spend time in His house (meaning temples)

- serve God's children by seeking our ancestors and doing temple ordinances for them

- thankfully keep our covenants

- listen to the witness of the Holy Ghost

She concluded with her testimony of the Savior and her witness that by receiving and honoring the ordinances of the temple, we come to know Him.

President Folger

He began by bearing testimony that our stake presidency has been called and is sustained and inspired by God.  He expressed gratitude for the opportunity to feel the Spirit in stake conference meetings.

He then focused his remarks on the Book of Mormon and the temple ordinances.  He compared them both to giving a man a fish and teaching the man how to fish at the same time.  The Book of Mormon "feeds us", but it also provides instruction which helps us learn to "feed" ourselves and others.  He said that Moroni provided us the perfect formula to seek truth in all things.  

And when ye shall receive these things, I would exhort you that ye would ask God, the Eternal Father, in the name of Christ, if these things are not true; and if ye shall ask with a sincere heart, with real intent, having faith in Christ, he will manifest the truth of it unto you, by the power of the Holy Ghost. And by the power of the Holy Ghost ye may know the truth of all things.  (Mormon 10:4-5)

He quoted from President Thomas S. Monson's most recent General Conference talk in April 2017:

"My dear associates in the work of the Lord, I implore each of us to prayerfully study and ponder the Book of Mormon each day. As we do so, we will be in a position to hear the voice of the Spirit, to resist temptation, to overcome doubt and fear, and to receive heaven’s help in our lives. I so testify with all my heart in the name of Jesus Christ, amen."

He then explained that the temple endowment is a special gift of blessings from the Lord (the fish) and that the endowment also teaches us how and empowers us to become like Jesus Christ (teaches us how to fish).  He concluded with his testimony of the Savior.

President Peterson
He shared the story of the Martin and Willie handcart pioneers and their testimony that through their extreme circumstances and sacrifices, they became acquainted with the Lord.  He reminded us that sacrifice has always been part of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  Sacrifice is different individually and generationally.  For our generation the real sacrifice is of time - time serving to build Zion and time for the salvation of the living and the dead.

He mentioned several things that as we involve ourselves in doing them we sanctify ourselves and others.  Home and visiting Teaching, sharing the Gospel, serving in our communities, temple and family history work, Sabbath Day observance, scripture study and prayer.

He share the following quote from Sister Carol F. McConkie's talk at the recent General Women Session of General Conference in March 2017:
"Most often it is the sacrifices we make to keep our covenants that sanctify us and make us holy."

He concluded with his testimony of our Savior as the perfect example of sacrifice.

President Towne

He addressed his remarks to the Primary children.  He shared a story from his childhood of having the opportunity on a hot day in Arizona to stand outside the temple and shake the hand of the prophet.  He said, "It is always great to be at the temple."  He told the children that they are not too young to go to the temple.  They won't be able to go inside until they are 12 years old, but he told them they can feel peace even from outside.  He told them, "Every time I can go to the temple I feel good inside."

He encouraged the children in ways that they can participate in temple and family history work:
- help your parents know you'll be okay with a babysitter so they can go to the temple
- help your parents prepare names for the temple
- learn to index - you can maybe read the names better than the old eyes of your parents
- you can have your own FamilySearch account when you are 8 years old 

He said there were 265 days before the closing of the Washington DC Temple (counting from 11 June 2017).  He explained that it will be closed for a long time as needed work is done, but that when it reopens there will be events that they as children can be involved with.  He encouraged the children to be ready to invite their friends to the temple open house in 2020.

He told the children, "There are so many good things about the temple, but the most important thing is that it is the house of the Lord."

He bore testimony of the sealing ordinance and encouraged the children to help the Savior in the work of salvation by sharing the gospel with their friends and by helping with temple and family history work.

President Mitchell
He began by expressing gratitude to the parents for bringing their children to stake conference - for providing that pattern of faith.  He also expressed gratitude to the Lord for the many blessings of the Gospel.

He reminded the youth of his invitation to read a chapter from the Book of Mormon each day this summer.  He encouraged us all to read and study the Book of Mormon daily and he quoted from President Thomas S. Monson's most recent Conference talk in April 2017:
"I implore each of us to prayerfully study and ponder the Book of Mormon each day. As we do so, we will be in a position to hear the voice of the Spirit, to resist temptation, to overcome doubt and fear, and to receive heaven’s help in our lives."

He told us that temple work - the building of and the work performed inside - is the work of our generation.  We need to find our ancestors and take their names to the temple.  Our salvation is dependent on theirs.

He quoted from President Russell M. Nelson:“I invite you to prayerfully consider what kind of sacrifice—and preferably a sacrifice of time—you can make to do more family history and temple work this year."  He encouraged us to do so while the Washington DC temple is still open.

He shared from Doctrine and Covenants 98:16 "seek diligently to turn the hearts of the children to their fathers, and the hearts of the fathers to the children" and encouraged us to seek diligently for our ancestors.  He also shared from Doctrine and Covenants 127, "And again, verily thus saith the Lord: Let the work of my temple, and all the works which I have appointed unto you, be continued on and not cease; and let your diligence, and your perseverance, and patience, and your works be redoubled, and you shall in nowise lose your reward, saith the Lord of Hosts. And if they persecute you, so persecuted they the prophets and righteous men that were before you. For all this there is a reward in heaven."  He said he felt this counsel and promise applied to us as well.

He then shifted focus and spoke about justice and mercy as principles in the plan of salvation.  Adam and Eve received commandments - chose to partake of the fruit and then faced consequences for their choice.  There are two types of death - physical (a separation of body and spirit) and spiritual (a separation from God).  The probationary time of this life is all part of the plan of happiness.  The consequences of  Adam and Eve's choice (known as the Fall) were perfectly just.  The atonement overcame the consequences of the Fall and provides mercy.  The atonement provides the way for all of us to return to our Father in Heaven - whether we can stay there is the question.

He shared a story told by Elder Jeffrey R. Holland in General Conference April 2015 about two brothers climbing without any safety precautions.  

President Mitchell continued -
We make foolish decisions.  We will always fall short. We should strive to make good choices.  If we break just one commandment, we suffer consequences, but all it not lost because we have a Savior!   Let us always look to Him.  The joy of mercy is that it overcomes justice.  The choice is ours to accept the atonement - to believe in Him.

He spoke about what unconditional love truly is and shared this from Elder D. Todd Christofferson's General Conference October 2016 talk:
"There are many ways to describe and speak of divine love. One of the terms we hear often today is that God’s love is 'unconditional.' While in one sense that is true, the descriptor unconditional appears nowhere in scripture. Rather, His love is described in scripture as 'great and wonderful love,' 'perfect love,' 'redeeming love,' and 'everlasting love.' These are better terms because the word unconditional can convey mistaken impressions about divine love, such as, God tolerates and excuses anything we do because His love is unconditional, or God makes no demands upon us because His love is unconditional, or all are saved in the heavenly kingdom of God because His love is unconditional. God’s love is infinite and it will endure forever, but what it means for each of us depends on how we respond to His love."

He testified that Jesus Christ is our Savior - that He is mighty to save - not because of our own goodness but because of His greatness.  We must utilize the atonement in our lives!  This is the good news of the Gospel - that Jesus Christ has suffered for and redeemed us.