As I provided my January visiting teaching report, I thought
about the interactions or lack thereof which had occurred with the sisters I am
assigned to watch over. I had been gone
for almost the entire month and had returned with the flu, which kept me in bed
for the remaining days of January.
Visiting Teaching had been far from my mind as I traveled and and then
became ill. For the first time in many
years, I had to report that I had not "done" my visiting
teaching. I didn't feel that "liking" each
other's Facebook posts really counted as true interactions. I couldn't answer the question, "How are
my sisters doing?" I decided that
as 2018 proceeds, I will be better at keeping these sisters and their needs -
their concerns - their joys - their sorrows more at the forefront of my thoughts. By so doing, I believe the
Lord will be better able to guide my thoughts to know how I can minister to
them - how I can watch over them - how I can befriend them - how I can
"Visit Teach" them.
The basic principles of visiting teaching truly haven't
changed, but the application and how we think in terms of fulfilling and reporting the assignment has changed. I thought it
might be helpful to publish here the following article that is currently on the
Relief Society page of lds.org. I
especially like the question it poses at the end and hope that each of us will
consider that question and make a plan for 2018 that will help us become better
at ministering.
- Lorie Pierce
Visiting teaching is about
ministering. Jesus ministered anytime and anywhere. We can do the same.
To “minister” is to give service, care, or aid
that contributes to the comfort or happiness of another. Visiting teaching is
about discovering ways to minister to those we visit. Jesus
Christ ministered to all—anytime and anywhere. He fed the
5,000, comforted Mary and Martha at the death of their brother, and taught His
gospel to the woman at the well. He did it because of His sincere love.
Following His example, as visiting teachers we
can come to know and love each sister we visit, remembering that love is the
foundation of all we do. When we pray for inspiration to know how to serve her
and help her strengthen her faith, “the angels cannot be restrained from being
[our] associates.”
From the organization of Relief Society in
1842 to today, the ministering of women has blessed lives. For example, Joan
Johnson, an 82-year-old widow, and her visiting teaching companion visit teach
their neighbor who is 89 and has pneumonia. They could see that their neighbor
didn’t just need them once a month, so they began checking in on her every week
in person or by phone.
For other visiting teachers, sending a text or
email giving encouragement might be the best thing to do for a sister that
month. Making personal connections and listening with an attitude of love is
the essence of visiting teaching. Modern technology and time-honored
face-to-face visits help us do it anytime, anywhere, and in many ways.2 That is ministering as Jesus did.
Ministering
Rather than provide a specific message, each
month this page will feature a different principle to help us minister more
effectively to each other. As you pray and seek inspiration, you will know the
spiritual message and service each sister needs.
Consider This
How do we stop worrying about “what counts” for
visiting teaching and instead focus on what each sister needs from her visiting
teachers?