Sunday, November 20, 2016

No Greater Joy Than To Know That They Know

Dear Sisters,

Wasn’t General Conference wonderful!   Unfortunately,  I got to see very little of this conference ‘live’, so instead of waiting for my Ensign to arrive, I have spent the past few weeks watching the sessions I missed and reading the talks on-line. What a blessing it is to have ready access to the words of our beloved leaders! I truly felt their love and the love of our Savior wash over me as I listened to their words.
            Since I have been asked to share my thoughts on one of the talks that especially touched me, I would like to remind us of the words of Elder K. Brett Nattress of the Seventy, in his talk entitled No Greater JoyThan to Know That They Know. This talk refers to our own children, but I also feel it refers to all those whom we have stewardship over and those we teach or visit teach.
First, our children:  Elder Nattress begins by asking “if all that your children knew of the gospel came from you – as their only source – how much would they know?” … “Is there any greater gift that we can impart to our children than a memory burned deep into their hearts that we know that our Redeemer lives? Do they know that we know? And more important, have they come to know for themselves that He lives?” 
I am sure the story of his mother reading the Book of Mormon to him each day, though he insisted he wasn’t listening, struck a chord with most of you as it did me.  How many days did we rush through scripture reading just to ‘get it done’? How many times did my kids curl up in a blanket on the floor during Family Home Evening, sleeping while they ‘pretended’ to be listening? How many times have I wondered if anything was getting in at all! Her response to him was priceless and brought tears to my eyes. “I will not lose you!”
He goes on to say: “Her words pierced my heart. Notwithstanding my imperfections, I was worth saving! She taught me the eternal truth that I am a son of a loving Heavenly Father. I learned that no matter what the circumstance, I was worth it. This was a perfect moment for an imperfect little boy.”
 Isn’t that why we do what we do? Isn’t that why we drag our kids off to church each week and struggle with them all through Sacrament meeting? Isn’t that why we strive to follow the counsel of our leaders, even when it is difficult? Isn’t that why we don’t give up when they start to stray? We DO NOT want to lose our children.  We want them with us through all eternity because we love them, and we know what joy that will bring to all of us.            
Let me now go back to his first question,-and I hope Elder Nattress won’t mind if I change the wording a little…”If all your Sisters knew of the gospel came from you – as their only source- how much would they know?  Is there any greater gift that we can impart to those whom we serve than a memory burned deep into their hearts that we know that our Redeemer lives? Do they know that we know? Can we help them come to know for themselves that He lives?”  Do our Sisters know that they are worth saving – no matter what their circumstances?
 Elder Nattress quoted President Packer: “Save for the exception of the very few who defect to perdition, there is no habit, no addiction, no rebellion, no transgression, no apostasy, no crime exempted from the promise of complete forgiveness. That is the promise of the atonement of Christ.”2
He then goes on to say: “I don’t know if anything in this world could bring more happiness and joy than to know that our children know the Savior, to know that they know “to what source they may look for a remission of their sins.” That is why, as members of the Church, “we preach of Christ” and we testify of Christ”
 Preparing and teaching lessons, visiting teaching, and serving others in any capacity can be challenging, tiring and unrewarding, if we allow ourselves to forget that our service is helping to bring others to Christ. If we can take this one step further and let those whom we serve and teach know that we do this because of our love for our Savior, if we can testify truly of Him, then our efforts will not be in vain.  Our time will be well spent, and the Spirit of the Lord will shine through us as we preach and testify of Him.

Of this I testify in the name of our loving Savior, Jesus Christ.  
       
Cindy Erekson
Stake Relief Society President

Sunday, November 13, 2016

Gathering As Sisters - Ellicott City

In October the Ellicott City Relief Society sisters gathered for a "getting to know you" activity.  It was a relaxed, casual and comfortable evening.  The sisters came together and shared things about themselves.  What amazing diversity and talents and interests I discovered as I listened.

painting - graphic design - wood furniture building - quilting - Korean HipHop - gardens - dancing - travel - children - temple service - missionary moms - young moms - homeschool moms - new converts - life long members - grandmas - vegetable eaters - chocolate eaters - crafters - noncrafters

What they all had in common was their love of the Lord and their families.  I truly enjoyed my opportunity to be there and feel of their sisterhood.

-Lorie Pierce

Sunday, November 6, 2016

Sending Christmas Wishes to Our Missionaries!

We had such a great response last year from across our Stake to this...Time to do it again!

There are currently 27 missionaries serving from the Columbia Maryland Stake in 9 States and 11 Countries.  They are scattered all over the country & the world.  We have 4 in Utah (all different missions) and 2 in Argentina, 3 in Peru (2 of them being President & Sister McGinn) and even 2 in the exact same mission in Benin/Togos Africa!  (so when you look at the list of addresses...no I didn't make a mistake both Elder Mahaffey and Elder Mitchell are in the same mission)

Missions are great & wonderful AND hard & discouraging.  Let's flood our Columbia Maryland Stake missionaries' mailboxes with Christmas wishes this season and let them know they are not forgotten - that they are loved - that we appreciate their service!

When addressing the envelopes in most cases you will start with the missionary's name (Elder or Sister First Last Name) and then the next line would be the name of the mission - followed by the rest of the address.  Any exceptions to that are noted in the address list.  If you have trouble opening the address list Google Doc link, please email me (loriepierce.rs@gmail.com) and I will send it to you as a file.  If you want to send a package rather than a letter - you will need to contact the missionary's parents for instructions.

Columbia Maryland Stake Missionary Addresses 2016

I've enjoyed seeing all these happy missionary faces - I'm sure you will too!














Sunday, October 30, 2016

Gathering As Sisters - Eldersburg Ward

In October, the Eldersburg Relief Society learned how to "chill out" in response to the age-old question, "What's for dinner!?!" The topic was freezer meals! The class was very well organized by Sister Beverly Christensen with loads of handouts and videos about different strategies to prepare meals that can be stored in the freezer and used at a moment's notice to create delicious meals. She's posted it all on her Pinterest board if you'd like to check it out! ( Beverly Christensen)  A group of sisters met afterwards in an effort to organize a freezer meal exchange group where they will share meals amongst themselves. Cool!

Also, a separate group of ladies learned how to crochet flowers to help adorn the knitted sassy caps the sisters in the Eldersburg Ward have been making to donate to cancer patients. The caps are adorable!

It was a wonderful evening!

-Jill Goodrich

Sunday, October 23, 2016

Gathering As Sisters - Columbia 2nd Ward

Bon voyage and bon appetit! Traveling to far-off lands is always more fun with friends, and food! That's what made Columbia 2nd Ward's Relief Society Cultural Dinner activity (October 12) such a success! Sisters brought food from all over the world representing their heritage or interests. Also, there were tables set-up with objects representing cultures such as the Lakota tribe, Hawaii, Korea, and Ireland. Two sisters shared their experiences from countries where they lived or were born which included Spain and Korea. So many interesting cultures bless and enrich our Relief Society Sisterhood. In all it was very informative, friendly, and yummy! Good job sisters! It was a pleasure traveling with you!

- Jill Goodrich

Sunday, October 16, 2016

Gathering As Sisters - Savage Mill Ward

What fun to go out and mingle with the sisters in our stake!  My most recent visit was to Savage Mill for an activity centered on recording and sharing the stories of our lives.  It was a relaxed and welcoming evening.  I am grateful I was able to participate with them.
- Lorie Pierce

Below are the highlights from their activity as written by Sarah Christiansen, counselor in their RS presidency:



We started off talking and sharing stories.  Our table found out the Pacini's have THE best worst vacation story... its a good one!  We all have so many amazing and wonderful stories to share that make up our lives.  It was fun to listen and to talk and share.  The second part of our night was centered around recording the stories of our lives through journaling with 3 speakers.

Corinne Edwards shared about her journey of writing and recording her life.  It was inspirational.  She has learned so much through her journaling experiences and had powerful things to say about the importance of recording our histories through journaling.  Corinne shared three important tips: 1. Decide that your story matters because it does.  Every story is unique and wonderful even if you just fold laundry or can peaches!  2. Decide what form of journaling works for you... whiteboards, blogs, computers, sticky notes, notebooks, chatbook, scrapbook, or regular old journal...  3.  Decide to be gentle with yourself.  Don't start every entry with "Oh, I can't believe its been so long since I wrote last.."  Just move forward knowing your life is full and set a goal.  Remove from your head that you need to journal every day.  Maybe start with once a year... on New Years or every Fast Sunday take an hour to write about your life.  Discover what works and keep going! 

Sarah Christianen shared tips on how to create habits of journaling with our families and children.  There is a great article in the September Friend with some prompts and ideas to get kids writing.  https://www.lds.org/friend/2016/09/happy-sabbath-keep-a-record?lang=eng  Another idea was to keep a notebook or journal by each child's bed and every night before they go to bed ask them what the best part of their day was and write it in that book.  A Family Home Evening journal was another suggestion on how to get kids and families journaling together.  You could write testimonies or have the kids write about the topic you learned about in your lesson.  If you can find a way to fit journaling into a routine you are already doing than it will make recording your history a habit.  I also touched on StoryCorps which is a fantastic group that records oral histories.  Some of them have been put to cartoons.  They are real life stories... sometimes a bit raw and gritty, but there are some amazing ones out there.  Here's a story I love, probably because she reminds me a bit of my grandma... https://storycorps.org/animation/no-more-questions/


Angela McGhie shared about the importance of recording our ancestor's histories.  There are so many options available through Family Tree.  Angela shared the app Memories (just type in Family Tree within your app store and it will come up).  Within this app you can make a collage of photos, add typed histories/stories, and record an audio memory.  So when you are at a family reunion or a holiday get together with your family this season and Grandpa starts talking about when he grew up on the farm with his Mom and Dad you can have this app on your phone and record the story right as he tells it.  Then you can upload those stories right to Family Tree under Grandpa's name and his parents.  Go check out Family Tree and this Memories app and put it on your phone.  Try it out the next time you are with family.  These apps are free and imagine the great stories you'll be able to find and share by just capturing them on your phone!

Sunday, October 9, 2016

Gathering As Sisters - Clarksville Branch

Last week I had the opportunity to join the Clarksville Branch sisters for their very first Relief Society activity as a new unit.  What an uplifting evening it was!

Their theme was "Things That Matter Most" based on President Uchtdorf's talk "Of Things That Matter Most".  They shared one of my favorite Mormon Message videos entitled: "Moments That Matter Most".


After the video, four sisters shared personal experiences with focusing on the things that matter most in their relationships.  It was a wonderful evening of learning from our sisters and through the Spirit.  We ended with pie and ice cream - can't go wrong there!